When one examines the Parashah Vayeshev, it becomes apparent that it focuses centrally on the behavior of Joseph’s brothers and initially presents the events from their perspective.
But it begins right at the start with the words, „And Jacob lived in the land of his father’s residence, the land of Canaan.“
Then Joseph is introduced, the shepherd, a son whom Jacob had in his old age and whom he loved dearly. Jacob is the one who makes him a colorful robe. As a result, the brothers felt slighted and began to hate Joseph. When Joseph begins to recount his dreams, they hate him even more.
Interestingly, these events only indirectly address the brothers‘ responsibility for their own behavior. Rather, they rebel against their father Jacob and attempt to resolve the resulting conflict by projecting their negative feelings onto Joseph. He had not chosen to be especially loved. Joseph speaks openly about his dreams, and his brothers suspect that he might be seeking special treatment from them. This isn’t the case. He’s simply different. While the brothers are constantly close, creating a strong group dynamic, it is Joseph who is sold by the Medanim to Potiphar, Pharaoh’s chief bodyguard, in Mizraim.
Of course, Joseph’s life continues, even though the circumstances are dire. In chapter 39, Joseph is freed from the hands of the Ishmaelites who had taken him there.
Now our Torah refers directly to Hashem. For it says in the second verse: „And the Lord was with Joseph, and he prospered in everything he did; and so he was in the house of his master, the Mizri.“
So Joseph’s life takes place not in Eretz Yisrael, but in Mizraim.
But read on for yourself. One sentence is particularly important to me. After Joseph was imprisoned, it says… „And the Eternal One was with Joseph and showed him mercy and showed him favor in the eyes of the jailer.“
I learn from this that God often works indirectly and positively on our lives through others who are not our friends or even our close acquaintances. And it occurs to me that everything is subject to the will of the Eternal One, even if life’s dramas initially seem to suggest otherwise. For it is God alone who directs, and it is we as individuals who contribute our abilities, believe in Him, and are accountable to Him.
Shavua Tov

